Key Parts of Physical Balance

EXERCISE IS GOOD FOR US.  You should move your body regularly, and challenge it appropriately.  There are many benefits to exercise, which we'll get into in a second, BUT, we shouldn't exercise solely to lose weight.  

Being healthy feels fantastic and will spare you from painful chronic diseases and extend your productive working life. At the same time, "fanatics" who obsess over physical health usually are compensating for psychological unhealth. Easy to spot are because despite investing copious amounts of energy and time into physical health, they never can quite resolve all of their illnesses and symptoms. Lots of vegans are like this, and I once upon a I time was too. Personally, getting my body physically healthy was a big part of getting my mind on track and reach that balance.

“Preoccupation with physical health” is so ingrained in our psyche as an inherent virtue, from billboards to commercials to magazines, that we have been tricked again. The line between servitude and mastery is blurred, and we can’t so easily see the difference between obsession and healthy interest. In other words, it is precisely in those things that people cannot easily distinguish between obsession and healthy interest that we can see the influence of a deity. The deity, in this case the idol, will not teach you how to use itself with moderation. There is nothing built into physical fitness itself that will teach you “physical health isn’t the most important thing in the world.” Even though we all intellectually agree that is true. Those that are psychologically healthy aren't negligent of their health, but they also don't spend every waking moment concerned over improving it further.

Finding a balance

Two almost perfectly physically healthy individuals may a resting heart rate of 80/120. The psychologically healthy person would be fine with that, end of story. The psychologically ill individual would be obsessed with getting it down to 60/115. It's a striving after perfection. The fear of death association comes from, I assume, the association with death and imperfection. With perfection and immortality. Yet, here we are, thriving in a society that worships fitness at the same time as the obesity rate increase rapidly. We don’t really believe physical fitness is different from perfection, hence why we condemn ourselves to perpetually drift away from it. It’s the same move every culture has taken to exalt their god, by keeping themselves beneath it. All of us who unconsciously propagate an ideal, the ideal of an ever elusive “physical perfection”. are cutting to the heart of psychological imbalance. Imbalance relies on the appearance of balance, it disguises itself as order. Jung viewed physical health as a pillar of human happiness and well-being, while noting that the body and mind are deeply interconnected. Are we exercising to attribute our ego to the toxic vanity society? A study in 2025 which looked at the effect of physical exercise on ego depletion found that physical exercise serves as a key protective factor that helps college students maintain self-control and build psychological resilience against stress-induced ego depletion.

Physical helps you feel better and mental can help you push yourself/ stay committed etc. Physical and mental health work together. You can't have one without the other. A severe physical limitation would have you spiraling downwards mentally while a mental problem would keep you away from healthy behaviour which leads to an unhealthy body. After all the heart is a muscle, and a strong muscle will always out perform a weak one. Aka, your heart will be better at circulating blood if it's in good shape, thus allowing more blood to get to "injured" places in the body, thus healing them faster. Also, increased exercise causes decreased fat in the body. Fat clogs arteries making blood flow slower. Your body also has to work harder in general to support the extra weight. So, decrease your fat and you'll increase your performance in all areas.

 

Tips on how to start…

If the weather is great where you are: Go for a walk! You pick the style: slow and short, fast and medium, a long walk - alternating bursts of power-walking and slow walking. Any amount counts and any pace counts. Listen to a great podcast, or just take in the sights and sounds around you. You can listen to music or anything you like on your phone…

If you’re joining a new gym and feeling intimidated: Check in at the gym and head straight to the gym classes or the functional area. Wrap a top around your waist if you don’t have fancy modest gym gear. Figure out where the machines are, the dumbbells, the treadmills. Truly, if all you accomplish on day one at a new gym is just walking in the door and getting a tiny bit more comfortable with the space then you’re are doing more than you think.

If you’re hoping to get started on resistance training: Pick five basic exercises maybe squat, sit up, plank, lunge, and tricep dips and do 5-10 reps of each, then repeat once or twice if you have time. (For hold exercises like planks, maybe aim for 15–30 seconds, or whatever starting point feels reasonable.) Remember that any version of an exercise “counts”: Standing up from a chair and sitting back down is a squat! Holding onto a sturdy table while you lunge is still a lunge!

If you just need someone to tell you what to do: While Youtube online exercise programs can be a real landmine for messed-up messaging about bodies, there are some really solid ones out there that make it super-easy — start the video and go. While it would be very nice if they’d add some body diversity to their roster of coaches, I love Peloton’s strength, Pilates, and barre classes. Occasionally, I do still watch Chloe Ting, Caroline Girvane, Sydney Cumming Shoudy Shell (2020 was the best because of her) and Pamela Reif. They are plenty of short videos to follow which still give you the same outcome without needing to hit the gym.

Of course, trainers are very helpful too! If you’re new to a gym, you may be able to do a personal training session for free. While they’ll certainly be hoping to sell you a package of sessions, you can ask to use the time to get to know the equipment and learn some basic exercises you can do on your own.

If you’re injured, or if any kind of pain is holding you back from exercise: Now is the perfect time to schedule an appointment with a physical therapist, or find a new one if you aren’t seeing progress.

Wherever you decide to start (or restart), keep it small, keep it doable, keep it sustainable. Remember, you are not letting what’s “optimal” get in the way of what’s manageable. Focus on how good you feel afterwards, whether physically or mentally. Enjoy!